Category Archives: What the hell

Bitching

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Come on.. everyone bitches, Accept it. But I dont know why only females are blamed for it. I think we atleast have the guts to accept that we bitch, have no qualms in accepting that we do. While on the other hand when men do it, they label it as discussion !! Yah right !! You are a saint and I am Britney spears, nice meeting you :)

You bitch everyday. In office about your boss and colleagues, at home about your in-laws, family, relatives and friends. But the truth is it does happen and we rarely accept it !!

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A shopaholic’s nightmare

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Well…

Landing up in a market looking for some stuff to be bought and then finding it difficult to recall a single thing that one needs to buy. Trying different things and once you do try them out, you feel that it isnt what you actually came for. Its something else and you need to find it before time runs out.

Its like you are aimless, all alone in the crowd thats there in the market and all of them look strange.

Its scary… very very scary !!!

Celebrating the loss….

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I have learnt to celebrate my sorrows, my losses and above all my defeats. Since childhood, I have always seen my dad doing this, and maybe have picked it up from there. Whenever I expected a thrashing, I was given a soft cushion. Whenever I expected a scolding, I got soft words, and when I expected a lull of silence, he took us out for celebration. I call it celebration in style.

When I got mere 80% in my class XII boards, he called people to boast of my performance and hosted a family get-together. When he had to declare the news of our joint family breaking up, he did so after an expensive dinner and ice-cream. When I banged the car for the first time in college, and called to inform him so, all he asked was if I was all-right. When I got my second division in college and thought that my life was doomed, he just smiled and took us all out for dinner.

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Kar bhala na ho bhala

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Many a times people and situations do not turn the way you expect them to.

No matter how you have been, what you have done, No matter what you have sacrificed, No matter what bullshit you have forgotten, Life remains unfair.

We dont get returns of what we sow as often as we are told we would. Not everything that goes around … comes around. Your doing good and wishing well for others, neednt necessarily be returned with the same feeling and gesture.

Moral of the story: Dont expect others to be as good as you have been to them. Expectation just messes it all up !!

Not a good habit

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I have come to realise that, I, more often than not, lose control over what I speak when I am angry. I use words and sentences that are bound to hurt people at the receiving end. And the worst part being that I am not ignorant about this fact and nobody needs to point that to me. I am very well aware of this fact. Infact I almost always realise it right after blabbering it out of my mouth.

Some people from my close vicinity bear it, while some dont. And I dont know how long will the ones who bear it will stand it in near future. I dont intend to hurt, But I do end up hurting. I dont intend to insult but I do real well in doing so. I dont wish to ruin it, but if the state of affairs remain the same way, its bound to happen.

Is being consciously aware of your mistakes enough? And if you are aware of it, does that amount to doing it intentionally? What if you got no control over it as of now?

But, I think, I better make ammends soon enough, before its too late….

Conflict of values

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*As a matter of principle, I avoid blogging about my workplace or my boss or colleagues. This post is in no way directed towards them. After having read my so-called statutory warning, you may continue reading.

There is a thought that has been bothering me for a while now and I dont know how important or relevant it is for survival in todays world.

What happens when you realise that your personal values are in conflict with the organisational values? Doesnt it then become difficult for you to continue working in such an environment? Or is it that it needs to be taken like a pinch of salt and be ignored as if its none of your business. Does it happen that ways, that you work, you get paid. Period? No one’s hired you to do moral policing for them so you shut your values crap?

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A confused soul

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When I thought love was important, I was told its money. Now when I think money is important, I am told its something else. I am sure by the time I will believe its “the other” thing thats important, they will change their view point.

Whats the point in confusing a confused soul? :-P

I dont get it

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There are a few people who have a problem when something happens. And they also have a problem when something doesnt happen. Cos then their concern is, why it didnt happen !!

I dont think any kind of clarfications can help to get a good name especially when the chapter has been closed and when varshita has turned wicked.

Any kind of justification now seems its almost like saying ” It wasnt my fault this time.”

It doesnt matter now…. then why all this drama. Why cant you just let it be… I dont get it.

Ouch !!

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Wishing on birthday is not allowed anymore. Especially when the person whom you are trying to wish, has a gf who doesnt approve of any interaction with you even if it is to wish him on his birthday !!

And for all this while, I was under the illusion that he had a mind of his own. And that he was capable of thinking rationally. But does that matter now?

I think I have had enough. My silence and my goodness has been regarded as my weakness.

So, here you go… Now I give you enough reason to support the cut off of all channels of communication. Again letting you go scott free.

And hey, Happy Birthday !!

(And I dont think your gal should have a problem with this !!)

Wrong teachings by the parents

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Its a very common sight to see a child getting hurt by falling on the ground or getting hit by some object and the parent comes rushing and pacifies the child by hitting the object or the ground almost as a habit and encouraging him to do the same.

The child feels happy about this and the parents are quite convincing in making him believe that by hitting the object, his hurt would go away. As if it was the fault of that object to have caused that hurt almost intentionally and under some major conspiracy. And now, that they had very much evened the score and settled the accounts, it should make the child happy for sure. He should forget his own hurt cos now someone else is hurt too.

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