Is it a season for marriages going kaput or is it just my bad luck that people around me dont seem quite happy with their respective marriages? I wonder !!
Infact the most funny thing I have ever heard has been:
Shaadi kar lo, sudhar jaogi
Anyways. My question is: Are marriages made in heaven? Can love last a lifetime? What if you dont get married to the person you love, will u still find happiness? Will you be genuine or will u be faking in that new relationship? By marrying the person your parents chose will you be making them happy and ruining or scaffolding your own? Are you trying to make sure that there is someone to blame when it fails?
I read somewhere recently that a team of scientists have found that romantic love involves some kind of chemical changes in your brain which last upto about 12-18 months. (the rosy marriage period!!) After that you and your partner are on your own to make it work. Funny as it may be, but I guess even relationships require maintainance.
So, I guess I seem to have found an answer for: Can love really last a lifetime? Absolutely, but only if you chuck the fairytale idea of “living happily ever after”.