A confused soul
When I thought love was important, I was told its money. Now when I think money is important, I am told its something else. I am sure by the time I will believe its “the other” thing thats important, they will change their view point.
Whats the point in confusing a confused soul? 
November 15th, 2006 at 11:24 am
I still believe education is important too.
November 16th, 2006 at 12:54 am
Yes i agree to that aswell…. but what about others now?
Latest I have heard … “money is not that important”
Excuse me !!
November 16th, 2006 at 11:48 am
Ok. I had thought not to have this discussion here, but if you insist.
The argument we had few years back was not of money but of education. And I had repeatedly said - if a person is adequately educated then god forbid in troublesom times he will be able to make money by doing a job of any sort -due to his education. But if the person is uneducated and (can’t land a decent job except being in the call centre ), is doing a so called business ( for which you had so little information ) then what is the solution if his business does not take off or does not do well. So eventually good education boils down to safety net of money. But money in itself was not the first issue. If you have an option to choose amongst 3 people to be your life partner and you make a selection solely on the basis of who has the maximum money, then I donot agree with your selection process. Again I will retierate the “education factor” and then money will be secondary. But donot construe that money is irrelevant. A man should be able to earn a significant amount of money so that the lifestyle that you are used to right now, is not disturbed. But still Varshita, even if he may have lot of money at disposal, at times you may have to make some sacrifices / compromises with regard to spending the money. You cannot buy anything any time when you wish for. So this was the point in favour of compromise. Anyways, if you get married to a businessman who has lot of money but is barely 12th pass, will he be able to contribute towards your childrens education? Will he be having a broad spectrum of thinking ? Will you feel comfortable to introduce him to relatives , freinds , office freinds. Yes, you can brag about all the money that you will own , but it will not be true happiness. Look inside you. Think for yourself. What makes you happy ( please do not give me the answer- he ) . Think about what will be important in raising your kids. Think long term. Think practically. Next time- let’s discuss this over the phone.