Lost and smiled

I had this bet in one of my previous posts, which kept motivating me to write a post a day for atleast the next 21 days.

I lost it yesterday. I didnt write a post for 19th october. This bet started on 5th and I could only take it till 14 days. Just 2 weeks. And I have zillions of reasons to support my case. But I wont. Cos there was point to be proved through this bet, and it has been very well conveyed.

I can easily say I was busy, tired, blah blah blah, or worse still cheat and put posts backdated, but it wont help. The fact remains, I didnt do what I thought I could. Something which wasnt very tough given the hyper activity of my brain cells. But at the end of the day I did not do what I thought was oh-so-damn easy.

Lesson learnt !! :)

Ouch !!

Wishing on birthday is not allowed anymore. Especially when the person whom you are trying to wish, has a gf who doesnt approve of any interaction with you even if it is to wish him on his birthday !!

And for all this while, I was under the illusion that he had a mind of his own. And that he was capable of thinking rationally. But does that matter now?

I think I have had enough. My silence and my goodness has been regarded as my weakness.

So, here you go… Now I give you enough reason to support the cut off of all channels of communication. Again letting you go scott free.

And hey, Happy Birthday !!

(And I dont think your gal should have a problem with this !!)

Wrong teachings by the parents

Its a very common sight to see a child getting hurt by falling on the ground or getting hit by some object and the parent comes rushing and pacifies the child by hitting the object or the ground almost as a habit and encouraging him to do the same.

The child feels happy about this and the parents are quite convincing in making him believe that by hitting the object, his hurt would go away. As if it was the fault of that object to have caused that hurt almost intentionally and under some major conspiracy. And now, that they had very much evened the score and settled the accounts, it should make the child happy for sure. He should forget his own hurt cos now someone else is hurt too.

Continue reading

No matter what…

Once again I saw Notting Hill. I have stopped counting how many times I have seen this movie. Here is one song that I liked from Boyzone.

No matter what they tell us
No matter what they do
No matter what they teach us
What we believe is true

No matter what they call us
However they attack
No matter where they take us
We’ll find our own way back

I can’t deny what I believe
I can’t be what I’m not
I know our love forever
I know, no matter what

Continue reading

Sita v/s Kaali

Each woman has the option of either being a Sita, symbol of love and sacrifice or the godess Kaali, full of anger and rage.

I think we women take on these roles quite seriously and consistenly throughout our lives. We either take crap from people we love or from the people around us, hoping for them to realise their mistake one day, sacrifice our needs, wants, and above all our comforts for them and to have peace OR we take issues head-on. We deal with them, fight it out for ourselves, and hold our grounds for what we want. We are either regarded too weak or way too strong.

Continue reading